Just Be Yourself



I have this problem when dealing with people…ok…so most probably wouldn’t see it as a problem, but for someone so focused on being authentic it is. It’s that when I first meet someone, people automatically want to paint me with a halo. My stories are good and I’m very drawn to beauty, and holiness appeals to me…so that’s the story that comes out first…I get it. What they do not realize, and perhaps what I am most cautious with, is the fact that the other side also beckons me. Meaning…I’m HUMAN!

The problem arises due to the fact that people then develop certain expectations, which I then strive to meet. However no one is all one thing or the other…at least no one this side of heaven. We are all a beautiful mixture. Yes beautiful…because it is exactly our flaws that allow for grace to come in and do its work. So why not embrace transparency? I’m not saying to flaunt our flaws, or pridefully resist change…heck no. We should always strive for better…but you can’t force it on yourself. We can’t force it on anyone else either. How about if we were to just embrace each other…warts and all?

Isn’t that what soul friends do? We see each other as flowers when the world would consider us weeds.

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3 thoughts on “Just Be Yourself

  1. I like it! The way I’ve always seen it: if you don’t like me… oh well. I don’t really care. I am who I am and I’m not going to change/hide for anyone. πŸ˜€


  2. That’s awesome! Sometimes what can happen is that time and certain experiences may lead people into hiding behind masks…not of their own choosing…but as a coping mechanism. I say to those reading this that this may apply to…’let it go’. πŸ˜‰ it’s also a great way to find out who your true friends are.


  3. Exactly! I can’t be bothered by people that can’t just accept my quirks.

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